Monday, October 3, 2011

The Happiness Party



We had a Happiness Party today at pre-school. We promised Dew Drop that if she could learn how to be happy at school we'd bring cupcakes and have a party. This party was a long time coming, folks. I found myself in "unbloggable" territory not wanting to share the intense trials and tribulations we've gone through with starting school. I have new gray hairs and lots more wrinkles to vouch for it. At the Happiness Party Dew Drop requested I sing Donovan's song "Happiness Runs In A Circular Motion" for the class. It's one of our family theme songs, and has been the sound track for teaching Dew Drop to choose happiness at school. She seemed surprised that the other kids didn't know the words (Dew Drop: this is just the beginning of the weirdness your parents are going to thrust upon you as time rolls forward. Just get used to it. There's really no avoiding it that I can see.)

*While making the cupcakes Babba and I joked that being the whacked out visual artists we are, even our happiness cupcakes took on a very sinister and postmodern look. Babba was in charge of the happy faces, and as they came down the assembly line for me to add the sprinkles (for hair!) I was met with one wicked looking smiley face after another. If Babba worked at a bake shop he would be fired! We decided that there's just something inherently creepy about making a human likeness that is meant to be eaten- even if it's drawn with chocolate icing. Babba maintains that his problem was with the color palette he was given. He wanted them to be chocolate icing with vanilla icing lines. Dew Drop would have none of that- she was adamant that the icing should be white and the faces should be brown- proof that there's a lot of skin color consciousness going on around here. I told them both that either way of doing it would create brown faces (that was Dew Drop's main concern- that the faces be brown), but different routes to get there. It's positive space versus negative space peeps!

10 comments:

Julie said...

Fantastic! You give me hope!

los cazadores said...

Happy happy to you All, love the happiness.

Christine said...

I'm so happy that Dew Drop chose happiness! One of those cupcakes is looking at me, mocking me ;)

Karin said...

Love the happiness party, love the cupcakes. I'm sending good pre-school vibes your way; I know it's hard...we've been there!

semiferalmama said...

I thought I was the only parent who talked about things like choosing happiness. I mean, my father's classic line was, "I'll give you something to cry about." About as opposite as possible from, "maybe you could choose happiness." I would love to hear more about how you talk about this. Maybe I can start hearing your voice in my head providing me guidance instead of my father's mocking me.
Lest anyone thinks I was abused - my Dad was 98% bark. But we respected the bark.

Themia said...

I love your family - beautiful weirdness, truly.

Claudia said...

I'm SO GLAD you got to the point of a happiness party! YAAAAAAAAAAAY!

eastiopians said...

So good to see that happiness. I know it's been a tough road. And, did you sing that song for her class? I am uber impressed. That would take some mad singing skills. I love DD. She is my personal hero. To overcome fear and chose happiness is the biggest achievement one can make.

Sierra said...

Hi I am a student in the Creative and Aesthetic Experiences class and I noticed that a lot of your art is influenced by Buddhism and from looking at your blog it looks like you also practice it. I am an officer in the Living Buddhism Club at VT and would like to know if you might be interested in coming and speaking to our club at a meeting. It would be very interesting to hear about your experiences, travels, and how Buddhism has influenced your art. If your interested let me know we would love to have you. My email is asierra2@vt.edu.

MLW said...

Love it all, but especially how cupcake icing can lead to a discussion of positive and negative space. And by the way, dessert time certainly does offer up opportunities for working out race: M picked out chocolate/ vanilla ice cream tonight. Carrying it home, I was told the ice cream was sad--because it wanted its daddy. "It wants its black daddy. Or its white daddy. Either one. You can choose, mommy." Whew. Anyway, glad to hear you are hanging in there on the rough ride to happiness, and ADORE the cupcakes on all levels.